The emotional filing cabinet

Pillars

Five drawers for becoming, love, language, mayhem, and dispatches from the beautiful disaster of showing up as yourself.

Choose your flavour of trouble

The five pillars

Each drawer has teeth, tenderness, and lipstick on the handle.

Lived experience, identity, reinvention, and the messy, beautiful journey of becoming.

Relationships, attraction, intimacy, and the complicated space between people.

Afrikaans-first writing on trans life, language, visibility, and an evolving book project built from lived experience and invited voices.

Part personal archive, part collaborative book project, part invitation for Afrikaans-speaking trans voices to exist loudly and beautifully.

Social commentary, culture, internet nonsense, overthinking, and explaining the world in plain language.

Life updates, confidence, style, visibility, small rituals, and showing up as your full authentic self.

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Help me choose the next beautiful disaster. Vote for a pillar, suggest a topic, or tell me which quiet part needs saying out loud.

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